So I am not really sure if I can even remember how to do this blogging thing, its been SO LONG!! We had a very crazy summer... house hunting and buying a new house and moving INTO a new house (not to mention morning sickness! YUCK!!). Once I got my camera and video camera unpacked and charged I realized that I had tons of stuff from clear back in July!! so for now, I am in catch up mode to get us back to the present...
And of course, it never stops there, with the normal things... Mikayla has had such a rough transition into our new neighborhood and her new school! I think she just doesn't like change and EVERYTHING changed in the blink of an eye for her... she tells me almost every day that she wants to move back to the condo (after 4 yrs. it had really become home for us!) so I try so hard to explain that there is NOTHING there anymore... no furniture, no food, no family... poor kid, she even had me drive into our old neighborhood so she could see the condo and the playground... Fortunately, she is just starting to perk up a bit. She has made a couple of c

ute friends from next door, and she has 4 friends at school that she talks about all the time and invite her to eat lunch and sit by them on the bus coming home from school, so I think she may be getting used to the newness. She refuses to ride the bus to school... every day I have to take her in, and hand her off to her teacher. For the first couple weeks, unbeknownst to me, she was getting to school and hiding from her teacher... so her poor teacher was spending the first 15 min. of class looking for Mikayla (she never hid in the same place twice!) so I resolved to take her in... and for the next couple weeks, I would take her to the door of her classroom, kicking and screaming and her teacher would drag her in to class while she punched her backpack and cried (her teacher would always joke and say "Come on Kayla, lets go beat up Tinker Bell" ... I of course was NOT happy with this situation. Of course I had to take Jax with me, and I think her crying and freaking out got to him, so whenever we would get even CLOSE to Kaylas classroom, Jax would start screaming too... So I had Kayla screaming and trying to run down the hall, and Jax screaming wanting to be picked up so we could leave... Can I even describe the looks on the faces of the other second graders in the room??? I doubt that any of them had ever even imagined such a display!! SO... the new game plan for us is...
1. LEAVE JAX IN THE CAR
and
2. I actually go INTO the classroom with Kayla while she puts her backpack in her cubby and goes to sit in her seat. This is of course contingent on her NOT SCREAMING or KICKING ME or any of the other embarrassing things she likes to do. Its been working out great so far... I just stand in the back of the class and wait til she looks comfortable, then I slip out. This also gives me a chance to talk to her teacher every day and get progress reports on how she is doing in general. The last report I got was so reassuring... teacher said that she called on Kayla to come up and read to her, AND SHE DID!!! she got right up, read to her teacher and went back to sit down... Even after a full year at Vineyard last year, she never got that far with her other teacher, so I am hoping that things are starting to inch towards improvement!!
Jaden of course is happy as always to be wherever... and there are SO MANY kids on our street (mostly boys) that he is in heaven most of the time. Occasionally he asks if he can go to Orem and play with his old friends (to which I very adamantly tell him NO! they were

a bunch of punks!) but for the most part he is doing great here. We started him in preschool at a private home just a block over from us, and it only took him a couple days to be best friends with everyone there... he is my little social bug (he takes offense when I say social butterfly) he is always at someones house playing, and can hardly stand to be at home, since it is so BORING here!! His friendships range from hanging out with two year olds to being buds with 11 yr olds... he just joins any group that is outside at the moment!! On another good note for Jaden, he has taught himself how to ride a two wheeler. He used to commandeer a bike from one of the neighborhood boys, but he wasn't making any friends that way... so I went out and got him his own. We decided on a big bike so he could grow into it, but turns out he can;t even reach the ground!! So I told him we would leave his training wheels on and get a helmet until next summer when he is taller. After riding on the bike for about two hours, he came in and told Brian that he didn't want his training wheels on, and so Bri took them off!! But don't you know... Jaden did awesome! I swear it is so refreshing to have a little do it yourselfer. After Kayla's histrionics, I get Jaden who wants to ride a bike without training wheels so he just does it!! He's such a good kid!!
Then there's Jax... my sweet little white baby! I swear, I never thought I would have such a white kid... he is just precious! It makes me laugh so hard when I see him and Jaden next to each other... I had them in the tub together last night and Jaden (who has my coloring) looked so much darker with his tanned skin, dark brown h

air and big brown eyes... then there is my little Jax who is whiter than you can imagine, with his strawberry blondish hair and blue eyes... it cracks me up how they are so different. But still the best of friends... Jax can't stand it when Jaden does ANYTHING without him. Especially being outside... Jax shouts at me "mom on!" (come on) "Out!" I have to admit that I hate to take him outside, because like I said... he thinks he can do anything that Jaden can do. So he grabs his dump truck (or a stroller) and off he goes into the road to chase after Jaden and the other big kids... I am constantly running after him and pulling him out from in front of a car... luckily this is a great family neighborhood and everyone knows to drive SLOW!! Jax also is a big talker... he is moving on to saying two and three words together now... some of the cuter ones are "shoes off" when he wants his shoes off or has done it himself... or "there it goes" when something is stuck then starts... like a DVD or a zipper. He also knows most of the Thomas the Trains by name, and I think he knows all the Cars characters by name as well... If he wants to play he comes and tells me "track, track" so I will build the Lightning McQueen race track, or "Tuggies, TV" if he wants to watch a DVD. He is a cute kid, he loves to get comfy on the couch with a pillow and a blanket. He calls it his "spot" and will stay there for a whole Thomas DVD... this works out great for me so I can get a shower!! He is starting to really show a lot of personality, too! If Kayla gets mad and is frowning or shouting, he mimics her, and puts on the hugest scowl (I need to have the camera ready!) or if someone does something he doesn't like he starts shouting "HEY! HEY! HEY! NO!" and glares at them... but if you tell him "Ooh, you look like a grumpy baby!" he smiles at you or makes a funny face... he obviously can change moods at the drop of a hat, and I am not quite sure if that's a good thing or not!!
All in all we are having a great year so far and really loving our new house and new neighborhood... we especially are looking forward to the Holidays coming up!! YAY!